This page is to share the little knowledge I have derived from playing with this LCD module, since I have not been able to find any reference except for the individual T6963 LCD controller and T6A39 from the Toshiba Website. Still, the mistery about the "obsolete" T6961B remains.
 
For interfacing details, please refer to the Toshiba T6963 datasheet and T6A39
Header Connector as seen from the back
 Metal FacePlate* 1 2 VSS
VDD 3 4 T6961 Pin 15 (?)**
-WR 5 6 -RD
-CE 7 8 C/D
NC (?)*** 9 10 -RESET
D0 11 12 D1
D2 13 14 D3
D4 15 16 D5
D6 17 18 D7
FS1 19 20 NC (FS0)****
C/D = Command / Data
WR = Write
RD = Read
CE = Chip Enable
VDD = 5V
VSS = 0V
*Can be connected to Ground. There is a trace jumper on the PCB to connect pin1 to VDD.
**Unknown. Connected to the T6961 pin 15. Most likely a power pin. Measures High.
***This pin seems to be not connected to any chip.
****FS0 is set to Low by a PCB trace jumper. This jumper can be removed, and FSO can be connected to pin 20.
 
Other Set Connections
The unit is internally wired for the following options (see the T6963 datasheet for details)
FS0 (Font Size) = 0
FS1 (Font Size) = Externally Programmable (pin 19), active Low, Internal 10K pull-up.
DUAL = H (Single Scan)
MDS, MD0, MD1 = L (8 lines 64 V-Dots)
MD2 = H, MD3 = L (64 columns)
SDEL=L (Simple Serial Method, No Even/Odd Separation)
-HALT = H (Normal Operation)