An old Italian proverb based on a Venetian legend says: "Wet
bride, lucky bride", meaning that if a girl is caught by
the rain on her wedding day, she can expect a happy conjugal life.
If this is true, then Mrs. Susan Cotton was certainly going to
be the luckiest spouse I've known in years, but what about the
rest of us, trapped in our cars in the middle of the road and
water over the curb? Later on the News would be talking about
this day as an example of exceptional weather; what is certain
is that none of the wedding guests imagined the frustration and
the unpleasant consequences that would result from that "wet,
lucky" marriage.
It was a beautiful late spring Saturday in Houston, sunny, breezy
and a perfect for driving to Joe and Susan's wedding. My friend
David and I were both invited to the ceremony, and I was already
enjoying the thought of riding the few miles to our little church
in David's beautiful new green convertible. Friends and family
were gathering from all over Texas while Susan's relatives, just
arrived from Australia, were enjoying their sojourn in a nice
hotel by the Galleria. When the groom showed up with his inseparable
cowboy hat, we all had our first clue that this was going to be
no common service. By the time the bride showed up, late enough
to instill the right amount of excusable anxiety in the husband
to be, something in the air was already taking place, and the
first clouds had covered part of that beautiful blue sky. Like
no other church I know, our small congregation held their services
in a shared building which was formally a classical dance school;
no other place would have been more appropriate for the merry
celebrations that would follow the rather informal but touching
liturgy.
The wedding was delightful and everybody had a very good time,
but by the time rings were exchanged thunderbolts were blasting
in the sky and rain was coming down as hard as Noah witnessed
it. I was clueless about the immediate future events while gaily
telling everyone that stupid Italian proverb. We danced and danced
and danced until sunset, when some guests that were trying to
leave early came back telling everyone how much rain was building
up in the streets and how wise it would be to leave as soon as
possible. It did not look like it was going to stop raining anytime
soon, and almost everyone rushed their way out to the swampy improvised
parking lot. A couple of cars remained stuck in the mud, digging
tire holes in the flooded ground while some would not start at
all. Friends were organizing car pools to take home the less fortunate
ones; David and I looked at the convertible and decided to take
a chance before it would be too late. The brand-new tires bit
on the mushy dirt and pulled us out of the grass with great relief;
we thought we were heading home with no further delays when we
realized how bad the situation really was. All the streets leading
out of the suburb had become rivers of turbid wavy water reaching
over the curb, cars were coming from both directions driving between
lanes where the road is higher, when the inevitable eventually
happened: one car died in front of us and another one rushed by
from the opposite side flooding the engine from underneath and
causing it to fail in a sudden scary silence. Now the only sound
heard was that of the implacable pouring rain hitting the soft
top of David's beautiful new green convertible. When nature so
abruptly takes control over our environment, we suddenly realize
how little we can do to escape its consequences. While we tried
for 30 minutes to call A.A.A. for rescue, we could literally see
the water level rising until the point when escaping from the
doors had simply become an unconceivable choice.
Like a ray of sun through the clouds just after a summer storm,
an unexpected tow truck showed up when we were about to reach
the point of hopelessness. Two teen-agers looking for extra cash
on a weekend afternoon passed by asking (what an astute observation)
if we perhaps needed some help. We quickly agreed on the expensive
but trivial terms of their availability and pulled ourselves out
from the windows. We were now barefoot walking in water up to
our knees, trying to reach the truck, hoping to get home as soon
as possible. The very same night a man drowned in his car in an
underpass across town. Monday morning the dealership was overloaded
with dozens of automobiles that had been the object of our same
misfortune, the beautiful new green convertible was in the shop
for over three weeks and came out with a whole new heart that
cost over $7000 and an oil leaking wound that would not heal.
Car rental, insurance harassment and a few other trips to the
Chrysler dealer occurred in the following weeks, and the thought
of another wedding still gives me chills!
"An act of God" is the technical definition insurance
companies use to identify events like this to avoid responsibility,
but for some unexplainable and relieving reason David was fairly
succesful convincing them to cover most of the repair expenses.
Sadly, months later, we hardly remember the uniqueness of the
wedding, the lightness of the dances or the happiness of the couple;
we remember rain, mud and loss of money. It was an expensive lesson
to learn and when I hear flood warnings any desire of driving
suddenly dissipates! Take my word for it, in case of doubt...
take a cab! Strangely enough, groom and bride stayed so late at
the reception that when they finally left, heading for their long
awaited honeymoon, streets were clearing up and no longer threatening,
so I guess the proverb was right indeed: "wet bride... lucky
bride".